Dr. Sherie Zander

Remember how happy you felt when you first fell in love with your partner? How you felt so loved, like you were complete, whole, cherished and adored?

Then something happened.

You started disagreeing, fighting, and stopped speaking at times. You didn’t understand why they reacted in certain ways. It really made you angry.

Do you ever wonder, where did the love go that you once had and if it’s possible to bring it back?

The answer is a resounding YES!

Relationships are difficult. They have always been difficult, but today, because of:

  • the pace of our lives
  • mens and womens’ roles have shifted, and
  • work effects such a large part of our home life

It’s causing more friction with couples.

Men and women are competing in the business world all day long and continue acting out their roles when they get home, causing:

  • disharmony at home
  • more fights
  • feelings of being neglected or ignored
  • feeling like an outsider
  • misunderstandings
  • power struggles
  • frequent blow ups

It can feel very competitive, like there are two males competing with each other!

This may cause men to withdraw, back away, shut down and lose interest in intimacy.

You know something is wrong, but you can’t figure it out and you don’t know what to do.

The solution is usually that women hold the power.

Women hold the power because in relationships women are:

  • tuned into family
  • relationship oriented
  • the communicators
  • sensitive to others’ feelings

Here’s the most astonishing thing: in romantic relationships, when the woman changes her behavior, so does the man!

Men respond as a result of receiving respect for who they are. Most men long for that and are waiting to be respected. When we respect them, they fall in love with us again.

Many women don’t realize most men are dedicated to making women happy!

When you understand how to show respect for your man, he in turn is motivated to make you happy.

That’s why my work focuses on helping women step into their feminine energy so it will transform a painful relationship into one that is harmonious, happy and loving.

I call it “communication magic with men”, because my patients tell me it works like magic!

It’s immediate and permanent when you really understand male and female differences.

It’s time to take action, get out of the misery and pain you’re feeling and bring back the love and happiness your relationship had when you first fell in love.

I work with couples and individuals who are single or married.  Also, I provide help for healing childhood issues, grief, depression, anxiety, and addictive behaviors.

I am covered by some insurance plans.

Call for a complimentary consultation (424-570-3168 ) or email me at